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Preventing Your Employees From Failing

By Carole Nicolaides

Preventing Your Employees From Failing

Have you ever noticed what happens when you become suspicious of and unsatisfied with an employee’s performance? Whether you realise it or not, you begin to create a "failure mindset" for them. With time, you stop believing in your employee and a cycle starts that revolves around low morale, low performance and deterioration of performance.

A chain reaction begins to happen with your employees once your mentality changes toward them. First they might turn in a project that has been completed improperly. In response, you reprimand them. Their self-confidence decreases which leads to a reduction in productivity. The more you discipline and chastise them, the more their motivation is undermined. When people perceive chronic disapproval or lack of confidence and appreciation they tend to shut down. While they may not verbalise to you what is happening, this behavioural phenomenon manifests itself in several ways. The syndrome is costly. But if you recognise the symptoms in time, you – as a progressive leader – are fully capable of rectifying the situation and redeeming that employee.

Let me provide an example for you. John was the President of a small company and a client of mine. He hired a new controller for his company who seemed to be a sharp, loyal and ambitious professional. Two months into the relationship John started doubting the capabilities of his controller. As we were having lunch, he communicated to me his frustration. When I asked what went wrong he answered that the controller was still not up to speed and that he failed to prepare a very important report for him last month. I asked John if he had communicated or at least found out what happened with the controller. His answer was, "I hired him for that. He was supposed to know that I needed that report for my board of directors."

You see how easy it is to create this failure mindset? With some coaching help, John was able to see what he was creating through turbulent perceptions. He communicates his expectations with his controller now and they are able to resolve issues before they accumulated into a berg of mistrust and criticism.

Before we discuss the possible solutions, let?s take time to look at several things many managers try that actually make the situation worse.

  • Requiring approval before making decisions. Becoming stricter with your troubled employee will only aggravate the situation. With employees who suffer from low self-esteem, having someone looking over their shoulder every step of the way is stressful and distracting. By allowing them to work on their own, you are breaking the thought pattern of "failure" and displaying the trust you have in your employee.

  • Watching the employee at meetings very closely. This is one of the worst things to do. Guarding every word that comes out of your employee’s mouth and making negative comments in front of a group of people is very demeaning. It is also considered a "power play" and is regarded as tactless and cowardice behaviour.

  • Avoiding face-to-face confrontations. Instead of dealing directly face-to-face with your employees you may choose to communicate your dissatisfaction or concern via email. Don?t fall into that temptation. Progressive leaders make the time and effort to "do the right thing" and discuss issues in person with their employees. Granted, these discussions are no fun for anyone. However, the fact that you made time in your schedule to speak with your employee goes a long way toward showing you support them and are available to them.

  • Allowing your perceptions to prevail. Most of the time our perceptions about a situation are so strong that they end up becoming our reality – whether they’re true or not. That can create turbulence and a string of bad decisions. During all your dealings with a troubled employee, remember that – until you have discussed a particular issue with him or her – you are basing decisions on your perception and not necessarily the facts.

  • Low expectations. If you expect too little from your employee and you do not present new challenges, your employee will come to doubt his or her own thinking and your confidence in them. When they lose the confidence of their manager, only negative things follow.

  • In addition to the "don’ts" of preventing your employees from failing, here are several preventative measures that will definitely help as well.

    • Become aware of this self-fulfilling failure mindset and the possibility that you might be causing the problem. Look within yourself for causes and solutions before placing the burden of responsibility where it does not fully belong.

    • Become actively involved with all your employees. Know what they are doing, what they are not doing. Ask questions, become personal and show that you care for them. At the beginning of your relationship talk frequently about priorities, goals and your vision.

    • Stop categorising people. Sometimes, even from your enthusiasm about some of your star performers, you end up stereotyping your employees. A better method is to communicate that you believe in all of your people. Otherwise you take away the motivation that they can become the very best.

    • Create a safe environment in which employees feel comfortable to discuss their performance and their relationships with their direct supervisors. Give them the freedom to ask questions and even challenge their managers.

    • Discover what is missing. Even if you have the best performers in the world you need to constantly ascertain what has changed in your department and how to keep pace. Team members may need to upgrade their skills constantly. When you do this on a regular basis you will be able to determine if their poor performance is due to lack of skills or knowledge or if it is a behavioural problem.

    I am not excluding the fact that you may have some employees that are simply not as good as you want them to be. I encourage you to find out what is really going on, communicate directly to them what your expectations are. Progressive leaders always take extra measures to prevent their employees from failing. After all, their success means your success!

    Poor Employee Performance Could Be Your Fault.

    Now, I’ll offer solutions to some of those challenges and provide steps to overcome and move forward.

    When stepping up to the challenge of low employee performance, a plan is most definitely a necessity. In order to create an action plan, you must first answer some tough questions.

    You need to find out precisely what you are dissatisfied with. Is your business as successful as you think it is? Compare your business with the competition. How much business did you gain in the last year? What are you doing to keep your customers coming back?

    Next, ask yourself, "What kind of manager am I"?

    In order to develop motivated employees, you first need to create a successful organisation and become an empowered and progressive leader. This means continually questioning your own actions and behaviour. This is what places us in a better position to understand the way we perform, work and live.

    A great starting point is to ask yourself a few more questions. What are you really trying to achieve a year from today? What are the company objectives three years from today? Simply stated, where do you see the company going within a year? Can you picture this as a journey? When will you arrive at your goal? Do you have a map at your disposal?

    This end destination is also your beginning point. With your new vision in mind you begin working backwards and communicating the end results you?ll work toward to your employees.

    Your dissatisfaction about the gap between your people?s performance and potential may arise from the fact that you are not creating an environment conducive to that behaviour. Your control of owning each problem and love for your work may not help you to think strategically about how to provide them with the resources to be better employees. Your people need to know how to build and implement systems that will facilitate the process and how to draw and execute a realistic organisational structure.

    The only place they have to look toward is you – their manager. If they get no direction, no communication, no feedback ... then they naturally become dissatisfied, lazy and uninterested.

    Below are the solutions to some challenges that can help you progress in creating an environment that will assist in your own growth, and that of your employees.

    Communicate Your Vision: This is one of the most challenging tasks for a leader. Too often leaders have visions and they know where they are headed but they believe their people can read their minds. I challenge you to reflect for a moment on how often you communicate explicitly to your staff. When was the last time you spoke to them about your passions? Have you ever mentioned a reason or explanation for your actions?

    Focus On Employee Behaviour, Too: Employees get easily caught in the manus that the company is not nurturing them and that there is no camaraderie amongst the departments. Despite the politics that are prevalent in corporate America most of the problems arise because people are not or will not break out of their comfort zone. In order to change your world, you have to be willing to change. How can you help them see this without causing a defensive reaction? By patiently coaching them to change their mindset and behaviour. Once you learn to become the coach, you can help your employees realise that they are the only ones responsible for their actions and choices.

    Encourage Owning Your Own Problems: When your people come to you with questions and problems, what do you think they really want? Solutions? Yes, but more than that. The truth is that they want you to take ownership of their problem. They want you either to fix it or have someone else do the work that they found cumbersome or challenging. However, when employees aren?t required to own their own problems, they become overly dependent on you and other team members. This leads to an expectation that all problems and challenges will be "fixed" by someone else. Rather than solving the problem for them, help them see the alternatives for solving the problem themselves. You can do this by asking great questions that will empower them to find the resources and processes that will get them where they want to go.

    People in general want to be great at their work. If they are not it is usually because either their managers or the company does not allow them to shine. Remember Buckingham's word from his famous bestseller First Break All the Rules. Buckingham stated, "Employees leave not companies but leave their managers".

    If you want to improve your employees’ performance you need to realise that their actions are directly related to how you behave. You have a great opportunity to shape the way they perform by influencing their expectations. You can influence what people expect and you can influence how people perform. If you want to change the results your employees are bringing you, you will have to change yourself first. Focus on your goals, expectations, contexts and your actions and let your people grow and be the best that they can be!

    Carole Nicolaides

    Carole is President and Executive Coach of Progressive Leadership Inc who thrives on helping individuals and organisations discover and leverage their unique strengths. She also offers training and consulting in Knowledge Management and Leadership Development.

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